Available Now Published Aug 2025

This Is a Guide for Thinking for Yourself
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Name: The No-Bullshit Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy
Price: 19.99 USD
Availability: InStock
Author: C.L. Aaron
ISBN: 978-1-969182-00-8

The No-Bullshit Guide to Ethical Non-Monogamy is a practical, psychology-based toolkit for people who want to build relationships that are honest, flexible, and entirely their own.

Inside, you’ll find real-world strategies for navigating jealousy, agreements, and burnout, along with gut-check exercises to clarify your own boundaries and desires.

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"Ethical doesn't mean easy. It means accountable."

ISBN (Paperback)

978-1-969182-00-8

Warning

Contents under pressure. Open carefully. Contains feelings.

Press Kit

Resources for journalists, reviewers, and podcast hosts.

Media Contact

claaronauthor@gmail.com

Author Biography

C.L. Aaron & D.J. Aaron

C.L. Aaron and D.J. Aaron are the writing partners and founding members of CLAaron Publishing. Writing under pseudonyms to maintain professional privacy, they unite deep experience from the fields of psychology, law, and education. Their work is driven by a commitment to creating books that are honest, clear, and immediately applicable—distilling complex topics into actionable guidance without the fluff.

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The Field Guide

Real Talk & Resources

A curated collection of thoughts on ethics, tools for repair, and the reality of navigating multiple relationships.

Resources

Tools for Readers & Educators

Practical, shareable resources inspired by the No-Bullshit Guide. Use in community spaces, classrooms, and book clubs.

*Please review the legal disclaimer at the bottom of this page before using these resources.

Printable Handouts & Posters

The Manifesto Poster

A visually striking “Love Without the Lies” poster for community spaces.

ENM Cheat Sheet

Quick-reference glossary for terms like NRE, Compersion, etc.

Digital Tools

Agreement Template

Starter template for relationship agreements (Agreements vs. Rules).

STI Conversation Script

Template for the sexual health conversation.

Discussion Guides

Book Club Discussion Guide

Questions to spark honest, practical conversations for reading groups.

Disclaimer This website and the resources provided are for informational and educational purposes only and are not a substitute for professional legal, medical, or mental health advice. The authors are not licensed clinicians, therapists, or lawyers. The guidance provided is a tool for reflection, not a prescription for your life. You are solely responsible for your own choices and their consequences. Laws regarding relationships, contracts, and parenting vary significantly by jurisdiction; consult a qualified local professional for expert assistance.

Glossary

ENM Glossary of Terms

Language in our communities is a living, breathing thing. It evolves. Different scenes and different people will use these terms in their own unique ways. This glossary is not a final verdict on what these words "should" mean; it is a guide to how we understand and use them in this book. Think of it as a solid starting point for a conversation. When in doubt, the most ethical practice is always the simplest: ask someone what a word means to them.

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